Sexual Performance effecting your Relationship
Sex is a supreme gift to a healthy intimate relationship.— Dr Tom
Being uncomfortable with one’s sexual performance, or being unable to fulfill your own sexual desire or your lover’s desire, can have negative effects on a relationship.
Sex is supposed to be a pleasurable moment for both you and your partner … a time for deep connection.
Connection requires empathetic communication … physical, emotional, spiritual … in a safe & secure, hygienic environment. (Leave the thinking behind for a few moments during sex, please).
Emotionally safe & secure environments may invite explorative adventure & fantasy … which is healthy as long as hygiene and respect are maintained.
Sex with Intimacy = Connection
Unfulfilled desire in a relationship leads to perturbed behaviors:
- acting out …. sometimes with deviant behaviors
Unfortunately, some individuals cannot physiologically perform the essential ‘maneuvers’ for sexual performance.
- lubricated engagement
43% of women and 31% of men report some degree of Sexual Dysfunction … and, are hesitant to discuss such issues with their healthcare providers
Inability to perform is often due to energetic or biochemical stressors, or disease states. Diseases which commonly create sexual disability are:
- Diabetes & pre-Diabetes, “Insulin Resistance”
- high cholesterol, atherosclerosis, Metabolic Syndrome
- heart disease & peripheral artery disease
- overweight & obesity
- Hormonal imbalances and deficiencies
- spinal cord & neurodegenerative conditions
- prior pelvic surgery
There are a number of non-disease states which can sufficiently impair physiology to create the hardship of sexual dysfunction:
- anxiety or depression from neurotransmitter depletion and/or anti-stress hormone overload
- pelvic lymphatic congestion, impeding blood circulation to the genital erectile tissue and creating insensitivity of genital nerves
- Nutrient deficiencies
When lack of sexual fulfillment becomes habitual, the expression of disrespect / resentment / irritability, etc, can become habitual as well.
This is a deadly threat to any sexually intimate relationship.
Often times, ‘age’ is stated as a cause of inability to perform sexually.
The science of Anti-Aging & Regenerative Medicine has disproven this.
Advancing age, by itself, does not correlate with sexual performance. However, ‘deferred maintenance’ of our pelvic lymphatics impede genital blood flow and congest genital nerve function. This impairs arousal, engorgement, AND genital sensitivity to stimulation.
Our PulseWavePlus (™) treatment program may be the exact solution to this conundrum.
The PulseWavePlus(™) program is an painless, scientificly authenticated, non-invasive treatment, non-surgical program to regenerate genital sensitivity, capillary blood flow, and pelvic lymphatic decongestion, with no down-time.
“You can’t shoot pool with a rope.”–George Burns
The most common functional debilities of men are:
- Erectile Dysfunction … ie, ‘ED’
- Premature Ejaculation
- Delayed Ejaculation
- Inhibited Male Orgasm
Big Pharma jumped early into the treatment of ED, weak or non-existent erections, with the invention of Viagra in 1996 . The FDA approved it in 1998. The drug industry responded quickly to its overwhelming success, its side effects, and a number of deaths with second generation of cousin-drugs, Cialis & Levitra, in 2003.
Since that time, the patents on Viagra and Cialis have expired, allowing generic manufacturers to price-compete, often with variable degrees of potency. Pfizer, the manufacturer of Viagra, responded by convincing the FDA to allow direct-to-consumer online sales at 50% discounts.
Price-competition aside, and direct-to-consumer online ordering & delivery of potent pharmaceutics with significant side effects and risk-of-death aside, the bigger issue is the drug’s benefit typically wanes over time.
As a clinician, watching the sociologic and interpersonal effect of the drug’s use, I agree with the majority of my colleagues: these medications offer potential to strengthen the connection and bond in an otherwise healthy intimate relationship.
Other than typical pharmaceutical Viagra & Cialis-like medications, conventional Medical Treatments may include:
- Injections of medications into the penis, ie, “intra-cavernosal Injections”
- suppositories of medication slid into the urethra
- penile implants with pneumatic pumps
From our Clinic’s perspective, we wholeheartedly support healthy intimate relationships, healthy sexuality, and the opportunity to improve your physiologic health by enhancing capillary blood flow and the health of the cells lining the capillaries.
This obstruction of microscopic capillary blood flow limits the blood available for the engorgement of the Corpus Cavernosa, the spongy erectile tissue of the penis.
At our Clinic, I see this as a great opportunity to enhance your sexual enjoyment, deepen your intimate relationship, and your improve overall health!
You can begin to restore your capillary blood flow and nerve sensitivity to your penis through my GetYourBodyBack Program.
- decompress mid-section unhealthy fat and dredge the pelvis’ lymphatic congestion
- reduce your fatty build-up in liver and arteries
- improve your metabolic rate and caloric burn
- improve your circulatory health
Whether you already have established disease creating sexual debility, or if you have no apparent reason for sexual debility and want to protect your intimate relationship, schedule a time to talk.
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